Everyone likes to ask me how Emma adjusted to Payton. At first it takes me a minute to respond because I have to go back and remember what it was like before they were inseparable!
When Payton was first born, Emma didn’t really respond to her at all. It’s almost like she had tunnel vision and didn’t even notice her in my arms. She has always been an independent player, and when I got home with Payton, she just kept playing!
I’m sure she noticed when I would tell her to hold on, let me get Payton set and then I’ll help you, but she never got upset about it. I think I do remember a time or two where she seemed frustrated and I thought it might be from sharing my time but she had also just started Kindergarten DAYS after I came home with Payton.
She would be gone all day and come home in the afternoon. Payton would sleep and we’d get some time together, then dinner, then quiet time, then bed time. It was all still the same routine. It wasn’t until Payton started to smile and laugh that Emma got interested in her. I think the day she made Payton laugh she fell in love.
Now they spend most of their time side by side. Payton loves to hand Emma blocks and Emma loves to build castles, then Payton likes to know them down. Emma reads to her and share her colored pencils. Payton loves to chase her around the room and dance with her. Seeing them together all the time really makes it hard to remember what it was like before this.